You’re Doing Great! And You Don’t Have to Lead This.

This is a series for anyone who has ever felt nervous, awkward, unsure, or pressured in front of a camera.

Every one of these posts comes back to the same truth: you don’t need to perform to be photographed well. You don’t need to be confident, polished, or prepared. You just need to show up.

Each post speaks to a different worry I hear from clients all the time – but they all lead to the same reassurance. Wherever you are in the process, however you’re feeling, you’re doing great. Today’s installment is all about how you don’t have to know what you’re doing! That’s where I come in 🙂


One of the biggest misconceptions about photo sessions is thinking you need to show up already knowing what to do.

You don’t need to know how to pose, where to stand, what to do with your hands, or how to make your kids cooperate perfectly. You don’t need to carry the session or make the magic happen on your own.

That’s my job!

From the very beginning, I’m paying attention to what feels natural for you and what doesn’t. I’ll guide you the entire time so you’re never left wondering what comes next. I’ll never leave you hanging!

If something feels awkward, we shift. If something feels easy and genuine, we stay there a little longer. You don’t have to overthink every little thing. One of my favorite parts of a session is watching people realize they can relax and just be together instead of worrying about doing everything “right.”

You’re allowed to just show up. You’re allowed to be present with the people you love and let me take care of the rest. You don’t have to carry this alone. You don’t have to lead this photo session – that’s exactly why you hired me!

And if planning photos has felt overwhelming, you can let that go too. When you’re ready, I’ll walk you through every step!

Linda is a Portland-based photographer specializing in weddings and creating family legacies from Portland to Boston and across New England. You can see more of her work online at lindabarryphotography.com, on Instagram, or on Facebook. If you want to reach out directly: linda@lindabarryphotography.com.

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You can usually find me adding books to my never-ending “to read” list; challenging myself to do things like not shop for a year; sneaking crispy m+ms from my secret hiding spot so I don’t have to share them with my daughter; and melting over seeing my children smiling at each other.

Oh and I guess I should mention - I’m a seasoned Portland wedding photographer who provides not only kick-ass wedding photos, but also a meaningful and laid-back experience from the time you book to the delivery of your final images. 

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