What I learned from my parents.

They came out into the living room where we were all playing, and they had the biggest smiles on their faces. “We have a surprise!” they had told us. From behind their backs, they pulled out glow in the dark stars for the two bedrooms that us four kids shared. Though, the girls room had glow in the dark dolphins, and I was pretty psyched about that.

We all immediately went into our respective rooms and started putting them up, figuring out the perfect places to put them on the walls (our ceilings weren’t flat, so they didn’t really stick well to that) and we waited for dark to see them shine.

We were SO excited about these. These simple little gifts that my parents got for us, solely because they thought it’d make us happy. They weren’t expensive or fancy. They were simple, and yet they still brought so much joy.
There was a  lot that I learned from my parents as I was growing up, and a lot of that I didn’t actually notice until I became a mom.
They taught me that
  • there is joy in the simple things.
  • You don’t need to have all of the best and new things to have a happy childhood.
  • They showed us the value in playing outside until it was dark.
  • About supporting your kids interests by making endless trips to the public library, or getting yet another model to work on.

I am so beyond thankful for the simple life we had growing up, and I am grateful that I never had to worry about where my next meal was coming from, or if I was going to have a place to sleep that night. My parents worked hard to give us the best life that they could give us, and I know it wasn’t always easy for them.

I’ll never be able to fully express my gratitude to them for the childhood we had, but I’ll never stop trying.

Tell me in the comments below – what was the coolest thing you had in your room growing up?!

 

Linda is a Boston-based photographer specializing in weddings and creating family legacies. You can see more of her work online at lindabarryphotography.com, on Instagram, or on Facebook. If you want to reach out directly: linda@lindabarryphotography.com. To sign up for the monthly newsletter full of encouragement and real life, click here!

 

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You can usually find me adding books to my never-ending “to read” list; challenging myself to do things like not shop for a year; sneaking crispy m+ms from my secret hiding spot so I don’t have to share them with my daughter; and melting over seeing my children smiling at each other.

Oh and I guess I should mention - I’m a seasoned Portland wedding photographer who provides not only kick-ass wedding photos, but also a meaningful and laid-back experience from the time you book to the delivery of your final images. 

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